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HOW TO SHARE YOUR CHILD'S EXPENSES WITH YOUR EX One common area for post-divorce conflict is child-related expenses. To minimize this, it is important to discuss before the divorce is final how will you and your ex share your child’s expenses.. Even with a clear agreement in the divorce papers, this unfortunately can be a minefield on many levels. WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. PUBLIC VS. PRIVATE SCHOOL: WHAT TO DO IF YOU AND YOUR EXSEE MORE ONSINCEMYDIVORCE.COM
HOW TO DEAL WITH THE END OF YOUR MARRIAGE The Difference Between Leaving And Being Left. Many times, the person being left is surprised by the decision whereas the person who’s leaving has had some time to think through the decision and to work through the grieving process that the person being left hasn’t even started. “As far as the person who’s leaving, they are in some type of pain in this relationship and they just want TOUGH DECISION AFTER DIVORCE: RENT OR OWN Tough Decision After Divorce: Rent or Own. In last month’s guest post, financial expert Suzanne Cramer shared the lowdown on refinancing – something that many divorcing couples have to do if one partner is keeping the marital home and has to buy out their partner. Before you get to that stage though, deciding whether youshould own your
ARE YOU JEALOUS OF YOUR EX DATING SOMEONE ELSE? August 31, 2014. By Mandy Walker 12 Comments. After divorce, seeing your ex with a new partner or date is a pivotal moment. It can stir up lots of emotions and you may even be jealous of your ex dating someone else and be confused by that: He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends. YOU WILL KNOW WHEN IT IS TIME TO END YOUR MARRIAGE It may not be particularly helpful or constructive advice but you will know when it is time to end your marriage. Something will happen and it may not be significant to anyone else but to you it’s a sign. It says, “I’m done.”. My current guest, Lois Tarter had THE PILOT LIGHT LOVER The Pilot Light Lover. Gail Sheehy describes the ‘Pilot Light Lover’ as a transitional figure who reignites a midlife woman’s capacity for love and sex. “Falling into romantic love after 50 makes a single woman feel very vulnerable and for good reason. The Pilot Light Lover rarely lasts. He maybe a married man disguised as asingle
DISCOVERING YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRET FETISH Nancy lives in England although she’s originally from Brazil. She went to England for a couple of months back in 1988 and ended up staying after she met the man who would become her husband. Officially, she’s been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of hisfetish.
HOW TO SHARE YOUR CHILD'S EXPENSES WITH YOUR EX One common area for post-divorce conflict is child-related expenses. To minimize this, it is important to discuss before the divorce is final how will you and your ex share your child’s expenses.. Even with a clear agreement in the divorce papers, this unfortunately can be a minefield on many levels. WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. PUBLIC VS. PRIVATE SCHOOL: WHAT TO DO IF YOU AND YOUR EXSEE MORE ONSINCEMYDIVORCE.COM
HOW TO DEAL WITH THE END OF YOUR MARRIAGE The Difference Between Leaving And Being Left. Many times, the person being left is surprised by the decision whereas the person who’s leaving has had some time to think through the decision and to work through the grieving process that the person being left hasn’t even started. “As far as the person who’s leaving, they are in some type of pain in this relationship and they just want TOUGH DECISION AFTER DIVORCE: RENT OR OWN Tough Decision After Divorce: Rent or Own. In last month’s guest post, financial expert Suzanne Cramer shared the lowdown on refinancing – something that many divorcing couples have to do if one partner is keeping the marital home and has to buy out their partner. Before you get to that stage though, deciding whether youshould own your
ARE YOU JEALOUS OF YOUR EX DATING SOMEONE ELSE? August 31, 2014. By Mandy Walker 12 Comments. After divorce, seeing your ex with a new partner or date is a pivotal moment. It can stir up lots of emotions and you may even be jealous of your ex dating someone else and be confused by that: He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends. YOU WILL KNOW WHEN IT IS TIME TO END YOUR MARRIAGE It may not be particularly helpful or constructive advice but you will know when it is time to end your marriage. Something will happen and it may not be significant to anyone else but to you it’s a sign. It says, “I’m done.”. My current guest, Lois Tarter had THE PILOT LIGHT LOVER The Pilot Light Lover. Gail Sheehy describes the ‘Pilot Light Lover’ as a transitional figure who reignites a midlife woman’s capacity for love and sex. “Falling into romantic love after 50 makes a single woman feel very vulnerable and for good reason. The Pilot Light Lover rarely lasts. He maybe a married man disguised as asingle
GETTING SOBER AND DIVORCED Getting divorced is one of the top ten most stressful life events and my current guest Debbi was dealing with the end of her marriage at the same time as she was getting sober. That’s not a combination that professionals recommend but as Debbie explains, in WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. THE GUILT OF DECIDING TO DIVORCE The Guilt Of Deciding To Divorce. I don’t believe the decision to divorce comes easily to most people and often, if you’re the person who initiated the divorce, there’s guilt. Those feelings of guilt and the second-guessing about if your marriage could have been saved can linger. For Michelle, seeing her ex in another relationship so WHAT HAPPENS TO YOUR BUSINESS IN YOUR There are two things you need to make sure are in your divorce papers. First, if you own the business, then you want it documented that the business is 100 percent yours, that you get to keep it, and that all of its assets and income is your sole property. This establishes the business as your separate property after the divorce and will YOU WILL KNOW WHEN IT IS TIME TO END YOUR MARRIAGE It may not be particularly helpful or constructive advice but you will know when it is time to end your marriage. Something will happen and it may not be significant to anyone else but to you it’s a sign. It says, “I’m done.”. My current guest, Lois Tarter had LEAVING YOUR KIDS AND MOVING AWAY Leaving Your Kids and Moving Away. For financial reasons, Esther Adler and her husband lived separately under the same roof for eighteen months before Esther was able to move out. After that she found herself moving cross-country to California taking her far away from her children. It wasn’t a situation she ever imagined but she did it FINDING YOURSELF HOMELESS Finding Yourself Homeless. At the end of the last segment in Marjorie’s story you’ll recalled that she had been arrested for domestic violence, spent the night in jail and came out to find a judge had granted her husband an injunction barring her access to her youngest daughter. Her husband had also closed all the joint bankaccounts which
DEALING WITH A MEAN, VINDICTIVE EX Dealing With A Mean, Vindictive Ex. After their confrontation in the therapist’s office where Lisa’s husband finally confessed to a prior long term relationship with a man, he moved out. Lisa had already filed for divorce and she’d pleaded with him not to make it difficult. However, she had no idea just what a mean and vindictive exhe
HOW TO NEGOTIATE YOUR PARENTING TIME WITHOUT HURTING YOUR Take The Long View. When you’re negotiating your parenting plan, often times the emotional pains and hurts are still fresh, there’s a breakdown of trust and fear of losing your child. So the natural and understandable tendency is to guard your interests. Bizub says you have to weigh this against building for the future. TAKING OFF YOUR WEDDING RINGS: WHEN'S THE RIGHT TIME Your wedding rings are a symbol of the promises made to each other and taking them off is a symbolic acceptance of the end of the relationship. You may continue wearing them if you are unsure about whether you want the relationship to end. If you are not ready to face questions or sympathy from others, you may continue wearing them. DISCOVERING YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRET FETISH Nancy lives in England although she’s originally from Brazil. She went to England for a couple of months back in 1988 and ended up staying after she met the man who would become her husband. Officially, she’s been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of hisfetish.
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. THE GUILT OF DECIDING TO DIVORCE The Guilt Of Deciding To Divorce. I don’t believe the decision to divorce comes easily to most people and often, if you’re the person who initiated the divorce, there’s guilt. Those feelings of guilt and the second-guessing about if your marriage could have been saved can linger. For Michelle, seeing her ex in another relationship so GETTING SOBER AND DIVORCED Getting divorced is one of the top ten most stressful life events and my current guest Debbi was dealing with the end of her marriage at the same time as she was getting sober. That’s not a combination that professionals recommend but as Debbie explains, in WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. HOW TO SHARE YOUR CHILD'S EXPENSES WITH YOUR EX One common area for post-divorce conflict is child-related expenses. To minimize this, it is important to discuss before the divorce is final how will you and your ex share your child’s expenses.. Even with a clear agreement in the divorce papers, this unfortunately can be a minefield on many levels. WISDOM FROM DIVORCE: WAS MY MARRIAGE A LIE? I feel like Andrea a lot, when it comes to my marriage, and whether or not it was “real.” My ex-husband pretended to be what he thought I wanted to get me to like him, to fall in love with him, and to marry him; the person I thought I married DIDN’T EXIST. FINDING YOURSELF HOMELESS Finding Yourself Homeless. At the end of the last segment in Marjorie’s story you’ll recalled that she had been arrested for domestic violence, spent the night in jail and came out to find a judge had granted her husband an injunction barring her access to her youngest daughter. Her husband had also closed all the joint bankaccounts which
ARE YOU TOLERATING A SEXLESS MARRIAGE? Are you tolerating a sexless marriage? Sex is a normal, natural part of every marriage and if the frequency is a problem for one partner, then it's present from the very beginning. Either way, it's time to find out the real cause. ARE YOU JEALOUS OF YOUR EX DATING SOMEONE ELSE? August 31, 2014. By Mandy Walker 12 Comments. After divorce, seeing your ex with a new partner or date is a pivotal moment. It can stir up lots of emotions and you may even be jealous of your ex dating someone else and be confused by that: He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends. DISCOVERING YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRET FETISH Nancy lives in England although she’s originally from Brazil. She went to England for a couple of months back in 1988 and ended up staying after she met the man who would become her husband. Officially, she’s been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of hisfetish.
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. THE GUILT OF DECIDING TO DIVORCE The Guilt Of Deciding To Divorce. I don’t believe the decision to divorce comes easily to most people and often, if you’re the person who initiated the divorce, there’s guilt. Those feelings of guilt and the second-guessing about if your marriage could have been saved can linger. For Michelle, seeing her ex in another relationship so GETTING SOBER AND DIVORCED Getting divorced is one of the top ten most stressful life events and my current guest Debbi was dealing with the end of her marriage at the same time as she was getting sober. That’s not a combination that professionals recommend but as Debbie explains, in WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. HOW TO SHARE YOUR CHILD'S EXPENSES WITH YOUR EX One common area for post-divorce conflict is child-related expenses. To minimize this, it is important to discuss before the divorce is final how will you and your ex share your child’s expenses.. Even with a clear agreement in the divorce papers, this unfortunately can be a minefield on many levels. WISDOM FROM DIVORCE: WAS MY MARRIAGE A LIE? I feel like Andrea a lot, when it comes to my marriage, and whether or not it was “real.” My ex-husband pretended to be what he thought I wanted to get me to like him, to fall in love with him, and to marry him; the person I thought I married DIDN’T EXIST. FINDING YOURSELF HOMELESS Finding Yourself Homeless. At the end of the last segment in Marjorie’s story you’ll recalled that she had been arrested for domestic violence, spent the night in jail and came out to find a judge had granted her husband an injunction barring her access to her youngest daughter. Her husband had also closed all the joint bankaccounts which
ARE YOU TOLERATING A SEXLESS MARRIAGE? Are you tolerating a sexless marriage? Sex is a normal, natural part of every marriage and if the frequency is a problem for one partner, then it's present from the very beginning. Either way, it's time to find out the real cause. ARE YOU JEALOUS OF YOUR EX DATING SOMEONE ELSE? August 31, 2014. By Mandy Walker 12 Comments. After divorce, seeing your ex with a new partner or date is a pivotal moment. It can stir up lots of emotions and you may even be jealous of your ex dating someone else and be confused by that: He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends. HOME - SINCE MY DIVORCE Suppose you revised your Will on separation or divorce and left everything to your adult children in an attempt to protect your property from a new relationship. Your new partner or spouse may get a share from your estate anyways. The rule in many legal systems is that a partner or spouse receives adequate support on the death of theother.
GETTING SOBER AND DIVORCED Getting divorced is one of the top ten most stressful life events and my current guest Debbi was dealing with the end of her marriage at the same time as she was getting sober. That’s not a combination that professionals recommend but as Debbie explains, in HOW TO DEAL WITH THE END OF YOUR MARRIAGE The Difference Between Leaving And Being Left. Many times, the person being left is surprised by the decision whereas the person who’s leaving has had some time to think through the decision and to work through the grieving process that the person being left hasn’t even started. “As far as the person who’s leaving, they are in some type of pain in this relationship and they just want LEAVING YOUR KIDS AND MOVING AWAY Leaving Your Kids and Moving Away. For financial reasons, Esther Adler and her husband lived separately under the same roof for eighteen months before Esther was able to move out. After that she found herself moving cross-country to California taking her far away from her children. It wasn’t a situation she ever imagined but she did it TOUGH DECISION AFTER DIVORCE: RENT OR OWN Tough Decision After Divorce: Rent or Own. In last month’s guest post, financial expert Suzanne Cramer shared the lowdown on refinancing – something that many divorcing couples have to do if one partner is keeping the marital home and has to buy out their partner. Before you get to that stage though, deciding whether youshould own your
ARE YOU TOLERATING A SEXLESS MARRIAGE? Are you tolerating a sexless marriage? Sex is a normal, natural part of every marriage and if the frequency is a problem for one partner, then it's present from the very beginning. Either way, it's time to find out the real cause. ARE YOU JEALOUS OF YOUR EX DATING SOMEONE ELSE? August 31, 2014. By Mandy Walker 12 Comments. After divorce, seeing your ex with a new partner or date is a pivotal moment. It can stir up lots of emotions and you may even be jealous of your ex dating someone else and be confused by that: He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends. YOU WILL KNOW WHEN IT IS TIME TO END YOUR MARRIAGE It may not be particularly helpful or constructive advice but you will know when it is time to end your marriage. Something will happen and it may not be significant to anyone else but to you it’s a sign. It says, “I’m done.”. My current guest, Lois Tarter had PUBLIC VS. PRIVATE SCHOOL: WHAT TO DO IF YOU AND YOUR EX If your divorce decree does not include a provision for payment of educational expenses, you may have to go back to court to seek a modification of the decree. The court could then mandate an increase in child support to allow for the costs of private school tuition, based on the following factors: Each parent’s income. MEDIATORS CAN BE BIASED Mediators Can Be Biased. Mediation can be a cost-efficient and effective mechanism for negotiating your divorce settlement and parenting agreement especially when you and your spouse are committed to working out an agreement. As a disinterested third-party, mediators are neutral or are supposed to be. Unfortunately, that isn’t alwaysthe case.
DISCOVERING YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRET FETISH Nancy lives in England although she’s originally from Brazil. She went to England for a couple of months back in 1988 and ended up staying after she met the man who would become her husband. Officially, she’s been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of hisfetish.
HOW TO SHARE YOUR CHILD'S EXPENSES WITH YOUR EX One common area for post-divorce conflict is child-related expenses. To minimize this, it is important to discuss before the divorce is final how will you and your ex share your child’s expenses.. Even with a clear agreement in the divorce papers, this unfortunately can be a minefield on many levels. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. HOW TO DEAL WITH THE END OF YOUR MARRIAGE The Difference Between Leaving And Being Left. Many times, the person being left is surprised by the decision whereas the person who’s leaving has had some time to think through the decision and to work through the grieving process that the person being left hasn’t even started. “As far as the person who’s leaving, they are in some type of pain in this relationship and they just want TOUGH DECISION AFTER DIVORCE: RENT OR OWN Tough Decision After Divorce: Rent or Own. In last month’s guest post, financial expert Suzanne Cramer shared the lowdown on refinancing – something that many divorcing couples have to do if one partner is keeping the marital home and has to buy out their partner. Before you get to that stage though, deciding whether youshould own your
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WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. YOU WILL KNOW WHEN IT IS TIME TO END YOUR MARRIAGE It may not be particularly helpful or constructive advice but you will know when it is time to end your marriage. Something will happen and it may not be significant to anyone else but to you it’s a sign. It says, “I’m done.”. My current guest, Lois Tarter had ARE YOU JEALOUS OF YOUR EX DATING SOMEONE ELSE? August 31, 2014. By Mandy Walker 12 Comments. After divorce, seeing your ex with a new partner or date is a pivotal moment. It can stir up lots of emotions and you may even be jealous of your ex dating someone else and be confused by that: He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends. THE PILOT LIGHT LOVER The Pilot Light Lover. Gail Sheehy describes the ‘Pilot Light Lover’ as a transitional figure who reignites a midlife woman’s capacity for love and sex. “Falling into romantic love after 50 makes a single woman feel very vulnerable and for good reason. The Pilot Light Lover rarely lasts. He maybe a married man disguised as asingle
DISCOVERING YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRET FETISH Nancy lives in England although she’s originally from Brazil. She went to England for a couple of months back in 1988 and ended up staying after she met the man who would become her husband. Officially, she’s been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of hisfetish.
HOW TO SHARE YOUR CHILD'S EXPENSES WITH YOUR EX One common area for post-divorce conflict is child-related expenses. To minimize this, it is important to discuss before the divorce is final how will you and your ex share your child’s expenses.. Even with a clear agreement in the divorce papers, this unfortunately can be a minefield on many levels. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. HOW TO DEAL WITH THE END OF YOUR MARRIAGE The Difference Between Leaving And Being Left. Many times, the person being left is surprised by the decision whereas the person who’s leaving has had some time to think through the decision and to work through the grieving process that the person being left hasn’t even started. “As far as the person who’s leaving, they are in some type of pain in this relationship and they just want TOUGH DECISION AFTER DIVORCE: RENT OR OWN Tough Decision After Divorce: Rent or Own. In last month’s guest post, financial expert Suzanne Cramer shared the lowdown on refinancing – something that many divorcing couples have to do if one partner is keeping the marital home and has to buy out their partner. Before you get to that stage though, deciding whether youshould own your
PUBLIC VS. PRIVATE SCHOOL: WHAT TO DO IF YOU AND YOUR EXSEE MORE ONSINCEMYDIVORCE.COM
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. YOU WILL KNOW WHEN IT IS TIME TO END YOUR MARRIAGE It may not be particularly helpful or constructive advice but you will know when it is time to end your marriage. Something will happen and it may not be significant to anyone else but to you it’s a sign. It says, “I’m done.”. My current guest, Lois Tarter had ARE YOU JEALOUS OF YOUR EX DATING SOMEONE ELSE? August 31, 2014. By Mandy Walker 12 Comments. After divorce, seeing your ex with a new partner or date is a pivotal moment. It can stir up lots of emotions and you may even be jealous of your ex dating someone else and be confused by that: He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends. THE PILOT LIGHT LOVER The Pilot Light Lover. Gail Sheehy describes the ‘Pilot Light Lover’ as a transitional figure who reignites a midlife woman’s capacity for love and sex. “Falling into romantic love after 50 makes a single woman feel very vulnerable and for good reason. The Pilot Light Lover rarely lasts. He maybe a married man disguised as asingle
FEEL STUCK AFTER DIVORCE? BUST THESE 4 MYTHS TO GET WHAT Divorce Myth #1: Asking For What You Want Is Selfish. I don’t know about you, but a lot of the messages I received growing up were that women should strive to be saintly and selfless mothers and wives. HOW TO DEAL WITH THE END OF YOUR MARRIAGE The Difference Between Leaving And Being Left. Many times, the person being left is surprised by the decision whereas the person who’s leaving has had some time to think through the decision and to work through the grieving process that the person being left hasn’t even started. “As far as the person who’s leaving, they are in some type of pain in this relationship and they just want WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. THE GUILT OF DECIDING TO DIVORCE The Guilt Of Deciding To Divorce. I don’t believe the decision to divorce comes easily to most people and often, if you’re the person who initiated the divorce, there’s guilt. Those feelings of guilt and the second-guessing about if your marriage could have been saved can linger. For Michelle, seeing her ex in another relationship so WHAT HAPPENS TO YOUR BUSINESS IN YOUR There are two things you need to make sure are in your divorce papers. First, if you own the business, then you want it documented that the business is 100 percent yours, that you get to keep it, and that all of its assets and income is your sole property. This establishes the business as your separate property after the divorce and will YOU WILL KNOW WHEN IT IS TIME TO END YOUR MARRIAGE It may not be particularly helpful or constructive advice but you will know when it is time to end your marriage. Something will happen and it may not be significant to anyone else but to you it’s a sign. It says, “I’m done.”. My current guest, Lois Tarter had GETTING SOBER AND DIVORCED Getting divorced is one of the top ten most stressful life events and my current guest Debbi was dealing with the end of her marriage at the same time as she was getting sober. That’s not a combination that professionals recommend but as Debbie explains, in LEAVING YOUR KIDS AND MOVING AWAY Leaving Your Kids and Moving Away. For financial reasons, Esther Adler and her husband lived separately under the same roof for eighteen months before Esther was able to move out. After that she found herself moving cross-country to California taking her far away from her children. It wasn’t a situation she ever imagined but she did it FINDING YOURSELF HOMELESS Finding Yourself Homeless. At the end of the last segment in Marjorie’s story you’ll recalled that she had been arrested for domestic violence, spent the night in jail and came out to find a judge had granted her husband an injunction barring her access to her youngest daughter. Her husband had also closed all the joint bankaccounts which
TAKING OFF YOUR WEDDING RINGS: WHEN'S THE RIGHT TIME Your wedding rings are a symbol of the promises made to each other and taking them off is a symbolic acceptance of the end of the relationship. You may continue wearing them if you are unsure about whether you want the relationship to end. If you are not ready to face questions or sympathy from others, you may continue wearing them. HOW TO SHARE YOUR CHILD'S EXPENSES WITH YOUR EX One common area for post-divorce conflict is child-related expenses. To minimize this, it is important to discuss before the divorce is final how will you and your ex share your child’s expenses.. Even with a clear agreement in the divorce papers, this unfortunately can be a minefield on many levels. DISCOVERING YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRET FETISH Nancy lives in England although she’s originally from Brazil. She went to England for a couple of months back in 1988 and ended up staying after she met the man who would become her husband. Officially, she’s been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of hisfetish.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. HOW TO DEAL WITH THE END OF YOUR MARRIAGE The Difference Between Leaving And Being Left. Many times, the person being left is surprised by the decision whereas the person who’s leaving has had some time to think through the decision and to work through the grieving process that the person being left hasn’t even started. “As far as the person who’s leaving, they are in some type of pain in this relationship and they just want TOUGH DECISION AFTER DIVORCE: RENT OR OWN Tough Decision After Divorce: Rent or Own. In last month’s guest post, financial expert Suzanne Cramer shared the lowdown on refinancing – something that many divorcing couples have to do if one partner is keeping the marital home and has to buy out their partner. Before you get to that stage though, deciding whether youshould own your
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ARE YOU JEALOUS OF YOUR EX DATING SOMEONE ELSE? August 31, 2014. By Mandy Walker 12 Comments. After divorce, seeing your ex with a new partner or date is a pivotal moment. It can stir up lots of emotions and you may even be jealous of your ex dating someone else and be confused by that: He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends. THE PILOT LIGHT LOVER The Pilot Light Lover. Gail Sheehy describes the ‘Pilot Light Lover’ as a transitional figure who reignites a midlife woman’s capacity for love and sex. “Falling into romantic love after 50 makes a single woman feel very vulnerable and for good reason. The Pilot Light Lover rarely lasts. He maybe a married man disguised as asingle
TAKING OFF YOUR WEDDING RINGS: WHEN'S THE RIGHT TIME Your wedding rings are a symbol of the promises made to each other and taking them off is a symbolic acceptance of the end of the relationship. You may continue wearing them if you are unsure about whether you want the relationship to end. If you are not ready to face questions or sympathy from others, you may continue wearing them. HOW TO SHARE YOUR CHILD'S EXPENSES WITH YOUR EX One common area for post-divorce conflict is child-related expenses. To minimize this, it is important to discuss before the divorce is final how will you and your ex share your child’s expenses.. Even with a clear agreement in the divorce papers, this unfortunately can be a minefield on many levels. DISCOVERING YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRET FETISH Nancy lives in England although she’s originally from Brazil. She went to England for a couple of months back in 1988 and ended up staying after she met the man who would become her husband. Officially, she’s been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of hisfetish.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. HOW TO DEAL WITH THE END OF YOUR MARRIAGE The Difference Between Leaving And Being Left. Many times, the person being left is surprised by the decision whereas the person who’s leaving has had some time to think through the decision and to work through the grieving process that the person being left hasn’t even started. “As far as the person who’s leaving, they are in some type of pain in this relationship and they just want TOUGH DECISION AFTER DIVORCE: RENT OR OWN Tough Decision After Divorce: Rent or Own. In last month’s guest post, financial expert Suzanne Cramer shared the lowdown on refinancing – something that many divorcing couples have to do if one partner is keeping the marital home and has to buy out their partner. Before you get to that stage though, deciding whether youshould own your
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ARE YOU JEALOUS OF YOUR EX DATING SOMEONE ELSE? August 31, 2014. By Mandy Walker 12 Comments. After divorce, seeing your ex with a new partner or date is a pivotal moment. It can stir up lots of emotions and you may even be jealous of your ex dating someone else and be confused by that: He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends. THE PILOT LIGHT LOVER The Pilot Light Lover. Gail Sheehy describes the ‘Pilot Light Lover’ as a transitional figure who reignites a midlife woman’s capacity for love and sex. “Falling into romantic love after 50 makes a single woman feel very vulnerable and for good reason. The Pilot Light Lover rarely lasts. He maybe a married man disguised as asingle
TAKING OFF YOUR WEDDING RINGS: WHEN'S THE RIGHT TIME Your wedding rings are a symbol of the promises made to each other and taking them off is a symbolic acceptance of the end of the relationship. You may continue wearing them if you are unsure about whether you want the relationship to end. If you are not ready to face questions or sympathy from others, you may continue wearing them. FEEL STUCK AFTER DIVORCE? BUST THESE 4 MYTHS TO GET WHAT Divorce Myth #1: Asking For What You Want Is Selfish. I don’t know about you, but a lot of the messages I received growing up were that women should strive to be saintly and selfless mothers and wives. HOW TO DEAL WITH THE END OF YOUR MARRIAGE The Difference Between Leaving And Being Left. Many times, the person being left is surprised by the decision whereas the person who’s leaving has had some time to think through the decision and to work through the grieving process that the person being left hasn’t even started. “As far as the person who’s leaving, they are in some type of pain in this relationship and they just want WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. THE GUILT OF DECIDING TO DIVORCE The Guilt Of Deciding To Divorce. I don’t believe the decision to divorce comes easily to most people and often, if you’re the person who initiated the divorce, there’s guilt. Those feelings of guilt and the second-guessing about if your marriage could have been saved can linger. For Michelle, seeing her ex in another relationship so LEAVING YOUR KIDS AND MOVING AWAY Leaving Your Kids and Moving Away. For financial reasons, Esther Adler and her husband lived separately under the same roof for eighteen months before Esther was able to move out. After that she found herself moving cross-country to California taking her far away from her children. It wasn’t a situation she ever imagined but she did it FINDING YOURSELF HOMELESS Finding Yourself Homeless. At the end of the last segment in Marjorie’s story you’ll recalled that she had been arrested for domestic violence, spent the night in jail and came out to find a judge had granted her husband an injunction barring her access to her youngest daughter. Her husband had also closed all the joint bankaccounts which
DEALING WITH A MEAN, VINDICTIVE EX Dealing With A Mean, Vindictive Ex. After their confrontation in the therapist’s office where Lisa’s husband finally confessed to a prior long term relationship with a man, he moved out. Lisa had already filed for divorce and she’d pleaded with him not to make it difficult. However, she had no idea just what a mean and vindictive exhe
YOU WILL KNOW WHEN IT IS TIME TO END YOUR MARRIAGE It may not be particularly helpful or constructive advice but you will know when it is time to end your marriage. Something will happen and it may not be significant to anyone else but to you it’s a sign. It says, “I’m done.”. My current guest, Lois Tarter had HOW TO NEGOTIATE YOUR PARENTING TIME WITHOUT HURTING YOUR Take The Long View. When you’re negotiating your parenting plan, often times the emotional pains and hurts are still fresh, there’s a breakdown of trust and fear of losing your child. So the natural and understandable tendency is to guard your interests. Bizub says you have to weigh this against building for the future. TOUGH DECISION AFTER DIVORCE: RENT OR OWN Tough Decision After Divorce: Rent or Own. In last month’s guest post, financial expert Suzanne Cramer shared the lowdown on refinancing – something that many divorcing couples have to do if one partner is keeping the marital home and has to buy out their partner. Before you get to that stage though, deciding whether youshould own your
DISCOVERING YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRET FETISH Nancy lives in England although she’s originally from Brazil. She went to England for a couple of months back in 1988 and ended up staying after she met the man who would become her husband. Officially, she’s been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of hisfetish.
LEAVING YOUR KIDS AND MOVING AWAY Leaving Your Kids and Moving Away. For financial reasons, Esther Adler and her husband lived separately under the same roof for eighteen months before Esther was able to move out. After that she found herself moving cross-country to California taking her far away from her children. It wasn’t a situation she ever imagined but she did it WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. GETTING SOBER AND DIVORCED Getting divorced is one of the top ten most stressful life events and my current guest Debbi was dealing with the end of her marriage at the same time as she was getting sober. That’s not a combination that professionals recommend but as Debbie explains, in WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. HOW TO SHARE YOUR CHILD'S EXPENSES WITH YOUR EX One common area for post-divorce conflict is child-related expenses. To minimize this, it is important to discuss before the divorce is final how will you and your ex share your child’s expenses.. Even with a clear agreement in the divorce papers, this unfortunately can be a minefield on many levels. THE PILOT LIGHT LOVER The Pilot Light Lover. Gail Sheehy describes the ‘Pilot Light Lover’ as a transitional figure who reignites a midlife woman’s capacity for love and sex. “Falling into romantic love after 50 makes a single woman feel very vulnerable and for good reason. The Pilot Light Lover rarely lasts. He maybe a married man disguised as asingle
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TAKING OFF YOUR WEDDING RINGS: WHEN'S THE RIGHT TIME Your wedding rings are a symbol of the promises made to each other and taking them off is a symbolic acceptance of the end of the relationship. You may continue wearing them if you are unsure about whether you want the relationship to end. If you are not ready to face questions or sympathy from others, you may continue wearing them. TOUGH DECISION AFTER DIVORCE: RENT OR OWN Tough Decision After Divorce: Rent or Own. In last month’s guest post, financial expert Suzanne Cramer shared the lowdown on refinancing – something that many divorcing couples have to do if one partner is keeping the marital home and has to buy out their partner. Before you get to that stage though, deciding whether youshould own your
DISCOVERING YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRET FETISH Nancy lives in England although she’s originally from Brazil. She went to England for a couple of months back in 1988 and ended up staying after she met the man who would become her husband. Officially, she’s been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of hisfetish.
LEAVING YOUR KIDS AND MOVING AWAY Leaving Your Kids and Moving Away. For financial reasons, Esther Adler and her husband lived separately under the same roof for eighteen months before Esther was able to move out. After that she found herself moving cross-country to California taking her far away from her children. It wasn’t a situation she ever imagined but she did it WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. GETTING SOBER AND DIVORCED Getting divorced is one of the top ten most stressful life events and my current guest Debbi was dealing with the end of her marriage at the same time as she was getting sober. That’s not a combination that professionals recommend but as Debbie explains, in WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. HOW TO SHARE YOUR CHILD'S EXPENSES WITH YOUR EX One common area for post-divorce conflict is child-related expenses. To minimize this, it is important to discuss before the divorce is final how will you and your ex share your child’s expenses.. Even with a clear agreement in the divorce papers, this unfortunately can be a minefield on many levels. THE PILOT LIGHT LOVER The Pilot Light Lover. Gail Sheehy describes the ‘Pilot Light Lover’ as a transitional figure who reignites a midlife woman’s capacity for love and sex. “Falling into romantic love after 50 makes a single woman feel very vulnerable and for good reason. The Pilot Light Lover rarely lasts. He maybe a married man disguised as asingle
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TAKING OFF YOUR WEDDING RINGS: WHEN'S THE RIGHT TIME Your wedding rings are a symbol of the promises made to each other and taking them off is a symbolic acceptance of the end of the relationship. You may continue wearing them if you are unsure about whether you want the relationship to end. If you are not ready to face questions or sympathy from others, you may continue wearing them. HOME - SINCE MY DIVORCE Suppose you revised your Will on separation or divorce and left everything to your adult children in an attempt to protect your property from a new relationship. Your new partner or spouse may get a share from your estate anyways. The rule in many legal systems is that a partner or spouse receives adequate support on the death of theother.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. FEEL STUCK AFTER DIVORCE? BUST THESE 4 MYTHS TO GET WHAT Divorce Myth #1: Asking For What You Want Is Selfish. I don’t know about you, but a lot of the messages I received growing up were that women should strive to be saintly and selfless mothers and wives. GETTING SOBER AND DIVORCED Getting divorced is one of the top ten most stressful life events and my current guest Debbi was dealing with the end of her marriage at the same time as she was getting sober. That’s not a combination that professionals recommend but as Debbie explains, in THE GUILT OF DECIDING TO DIVORCE The Guilt Of Deciding To Divorce. I don’t believe the decision to divorce comes easily to most people and often, if you’re the person who initiated the divorce, there’s guilt. Those feelings of guilt and the second-guessing about if your marriage could have been saved can linger. For Michelle, seeing her ex in another relationship so AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR LEADS TO DIVORCE An Emotional Affair Leads To Divorce. Marriages end in all sorts of ways. Sometimes marriages end in big dramatic ways (Sandra Bullock?). Sometimes marriages deteriorate over time until something happens and one spouse says enough is enough. It’s the straw that breaks the camel back. As Kristi, over at Divorce to Happiness says, when that WISDOM FROM DIVORCE: WAS MY MARRIAGE A LIE? I feel like Andrea a lot, when it comes to my marriage, and whether or not it was “real.” My ex-husband pretended to be what he thought I wanted to get me to like him, to fall in love with him, and to marry him; the person I thought I married DIDN’T EXIST. WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. ARE YOU TOLERATING A SEXLESS MARRIAGE? Are you tolerating a sexless marriage? Sex is a normal, natural part of every marriage and if the frequency is a problem for one partner, then it's present from the very beginning. Either way, it's time to find out the real cause. ARE YOU JEALOUS OF YOUR EX DATING SOMEONE ELSE? August 31, 2014. By Mandy Walker 12 Comments. After divorce, seeing your ex with a new partner or date is a pivotal moment. It can stir up lots of emotions and you may even be jealous of your ex dating someone else and be confused by that: He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends. TOUGH DECISION AFTER DIVORCE: RENT OR OWN Tough Decision After Divorce: Rent or Own. In last month’s guest post, financial expert Suzanne Cramer shared the lowdown on refinancing – something that many divorcing couples have to do if one partner is keeping the marital home and has to buy out their partner. Before you get to that stage though, deciding whether youshould own your
DISCOVERING YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRET FETISH Nancy lives in England although she’s originally from Brazil. She went to England for a couple of months back in 1988 and ended up staying after she met the man who would become her husband. Officially, she’s been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of hisfetish.
LEAVING YOUR KIDS AND MOVING AWAY Leaving Your Kids and Moving Away. For financial reasons, Esther Adler and her husband lived separately under the same roof for eighteen months before Esther was able to move out. After that she found herself moving cross-country to California taking her far away from her children. It wasn’t a situation she ever imagined but she did it WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. GETTING SOBER AND DIVORCED Getting divorced is one of the top ten most stressful life events and my current guest Debbi was dealing with the end of her marriage at the same time as she was getting sober. That’s not a combination that professionals recommend but as Debbie explains, in WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. HOW TO SHARE YOUR CHILD'S EXPENSES WITH YOUR EX One common area for post-divorce conflict is child-related expenses. To minimize this, it is important to discuss before the divorce is final how will you and your ex share your child’s expenses.. Even with a clear agreement in the divorce papers, this unfortunately can be a minefield on many levels. THE PILOT LIGHT LOVER The Pilot Light Lover. Gail Sheehy describes the ‘Pilot Light Lover’ as a transitional figure who reignites a midlife woman’s capacity for love and sex. “Falling into romantic love after 50 makes a single woman feel very vulnerable and for good reason. The Pilot Light Lover rarely lasts. He maybe a married man disguised as asingle
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TAKING OFF YOUR WEDDING RINGS: WHEN'S THE RIGHT TIME Your wedding rings are a symbol of the promises made to each other and taking them off is a symbolic acceptance of the end of the relationship. You may continue wearing them if you are unsure about whether you want the relationship to end. If you are not ready to face questions or sympathy from others, you may continue wearing them. TOUGH DECISION AFTER DIVORCE: RENT OR OWN Tough Decision After Divorce: Rent or Own. In last month’s guest post, financial expert Suzanne Cramer shared the lowdown on refinancing – something that many divorcing couples have to do if one partner is keeping the marital home and has to buy out their partner. Before you get to that stage though, deciding whether youshould own your
DISCOVERING YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRET FETISH Nancy lives in England although she’s originally from Brazil. She went to England for a couple of months back in 1988 and ended up staying after she met the man who would become her husband. Officially, she’s been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of hisfetish.
LEAVING YOUR KIDS AND MOVING AWAY Leaving Your Kids and Moving Away. For financial reasons, Esther Adler and her husband lived separately under the same roof for eighteen months before Esther was able to move out. After that she found herself moving cross-country to California taking her far away from her children. It wasn’t a situation she ever imagined but she did it WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. GETTING SOBER AND DIVORCED Getting divorced is one of the top ten most stressful life events and my current guest Debbi was dealing with the end of her marriage at the same time as she was getting sober. That’s not a combination that professionals recommend but as Debbie explains, in WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. HOW TO SHARE YOUR CHILD'S EXPENSES WITH YOUR EX One common area for post-divorce conflict is child-related expenses. To minimize this, it is important to discuss before the divorce is final how will you and your ex share your child’s expenses.. Even with a clear agreement in the divorce papers, this unfortunately can be a minefield on many levels. THE PILOT LIGHT LOVER The Pilot Light Lover. Gail Sheehy describes the ‘Pilot Light Lover’ as a transitional figure who reignites a midlife woman’s capacity for love and sex. “Falling into romantic love after 50 makes a single woman feel very vulnerable and for good reason. The Pilot Light Lover rarely lasts. He maybe a married man disguised as asingle
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TAKING OFF YOUR WEDDING RINGS: WHEN'S THE RIGHT TIME Your wedding rings are a symbol of the promises made to each other and taking them off is a symbolic acceptance of the end of the relationship. You may continue wearing them if you are unsure about whether you want the relationship to end. If you are not ready to face questions or sympathy from others, you may continue wearing them. HOME - SINCE MY DIVORCE Suppose you revised your Will on separation or divorce and left everything to your adult children in an attempt to protect your property from a new relationship. Your new partner or spouse may get a share from your estate anyways. The rule in many legal systems is that a partner or spouse receives adequate support on the death of theother.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MARRIAGES SUDDENLY END? For the wife, this is a profoundly distressing experience accompanied by loss of sleep and significant weight loss. Recovery is a long road. “This is not a typical divorce. It isn’t just the loss of love but also of your identity and the loss of your future and the loss of your past,” says Stark. FEEL STUCK AFTER DIVORCE? BUST THESE 4 MYTHS TO GET WHAT Divorce Myth #1: Asking For What You Want Is Selfish. I don’t know about you, but a lot of the messages I received growing up were that women should strive to be saintly and selfless mothers and wives. GETTING SOBER AND DIVORCED Getting divorced is one of the top ten most stressful life events and my current guest Debbi was dealing with the end of her marriage at the same time as she was getting sober. That’s not a combination that professionals recommend but as Debbie explains, in THE GUILT OF DECIDING TO DIVORCE The Guilt Of Deciding To Divorce. I don’t believe the decision to divorce comes easily to most people and often, if you’re the person who initiated the divorce, there’s guilt. Those feelings of guilt and the second-guessing about if your marriage could have been saved can linger. For Michelle, seeing her ex in another relationship so AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR LEADS TO DIVORCE An Emotional Affair Leads To Divorce. Marriages end in all sorts of ways. Sometimes marriages end in big dramatic ways (Sandra Bullock?). Sometimes marriages deteriorate over time until something happens and one spouse says enough is enough. It’s the straw that breaks the camel back. As Kristi, over at Divorce to Happiness says, when that WISDOM FROM DIVORCE: WAS MY MARRIAGE A LIE? I feel like Andrea a lot, when it comes to my marriage, and whether or not it was “real.” My ex-husband pretended to be what he thought I wanted to get me to like him, to fall in love with him, and to marry him; the person I thought I married DIDN’T EXIST. WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DRUG TESTING IN FAMILY COURT Drug testing in family court may be ordered if one parent believes — or knows — that their former partner is using drugs. Unfortunately, substance abuse is a very serious problem in the United States. According to the National Survey of Drug Use and Health, more than 24 million Americans are addicted to alcohol, illicit drugs, or both. ARE YOU TOLERATING A SEXLESS MARRIAGE? Are you tolerating a sexless marriage? Sex is a normal, natural part of every marriage and if the frequency is a problem for one partner, then it's present from the very beginning. Either way, it's time to find out the real cause. ARE YOU JEALOUS OF YOUR EX DATING SOMEONE ELSE? August 31, 2014. By Mandy Walker 12 Comments. After divorce, seeing your ex with a new partner or date is a pivotal moment. It can stir up lots of emotions and you may even be jealous of your ex dating someone else and be confused by that: He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends.Since My Divorce
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FEEL STUCK AFTER DIVORCE? BUST THESE 4 MYTHS TO GET WHAT YOU WANT June 4, 2021 By Martha BodyfeltLeave a Comment
If you’re divorced and still feel guilty or ashamed about asking for what you want, you may be struggling with common divorce myths that are making you feel like you’re not worthy. Today, you’ll learn the top divorce myths that keep you from getting what you want. And learn the powerful steps for busting those myths. DIVORCE MYTH #1: ASKING FOR WHAT YOU WANT IS SELFISH I don’t know about you, but a lot of the messages I received growing up were that women should strive to be saintly and selfless mothers and wives. Divorce wasn’t even an option. I think growing
up Catholic also meant that that infamous Catholic Guilt permeatedeverything I did.
We were taught from an early age that if you wanted something for yourself, you were selfish. That toxicity definitely carried through when I was married as well. Whether it was my own sense of guilt, or I
was just feeding off all the societal narratives that told me I needed to have the house clean and dinner on the table and always be ready and willing to have sex with my then-husband, I remember feeling like if I ever said, “Why don’t you make dinner?” or something like that, I’d come off as high-maintenance–a harpy, a nag, in other words–a selfish bitch. Did you ever feel like that in your marriage? Do you still feel like that, even if you’re divorced? You may struggle after divorce with feeling selfish if you don’t want to watch your grandkids this weekend. Or you may feel guilty about requesting paid time off at work. But here’s what you must know. _THE TRUTH: ASKING FOR WHAT YOU WANT IS NOT SELFISH. IT’S HEALTHY AND ABSOLUTELY CRITICAL TO YOUR DIVORCE RECOVERY AND FUTUREWELL-BEING._
Even if society and your family *never* considered what you want. Even if you were led to believe in your marriage that what you wanteddidn’t matter.
Even if you’ve been conditioned to think that you should put everybody’s needs ahead of your own. Asking for what you want is not selfish. It is not indulgent. It’s just plain empowering and necessaryif you
want to get out of the divorce rut that’s going to keep you frommoving on.
DIVORCE MYTH #2: ASKING FOR WHAT YOU WANT IS NARCISSISTIC Advocating for yourself after divorce is not narcissistic. You may have had someone convince you that it was wrong to ask for what you want. That person may have been your ex. Or a parent. Or someone else you loved. But just because they made you believe it was wrong to ask for what you want doesn’t mean that it was. _THE TRUTH: UNAPOLOGETICALLY ASKING FOR WHAT YOU WANT AFTER DIVORCE IS AN ACT OF COURAGE, NOT NARCISSISM. IT’S GIVING YOURSELF PERMISSION TO VALUE YOURSELF IN A WORLD THAT MAY NOT VALUE YOU. _ DIVORCE MYTH #3: IT’S JUST TOO HARD Asking for what you want—and not apologizing for it or justifying it to anyone–definitely takes work. But that doesn’t mean it’s impossible. And now that you’re divorced, the world is yours to takeback.
Think of a time you did something that you were scared of or anxiousabout.
Whether it was taking a full course load back in college (can I even remember my college days?!), someone getting to work on time after dropping your kids off at daycare when they were babies and you were a younger mother, or hell–navigating your divorce and dealing with the emotions and finances of that circus—no matter how hard it was, youprevailed.
Because you believed in yourself and knew you could do better. _THE TRUTH: ASKING FOR WHAT YOU WANT AND ADVOCATING FOR YOURSELF AFTER DIVORCE IS THE SAME THING. IT’S GOING TO TAKE WORK. IT’S GOING TO TAKE PRACTICE. AND YOU’RE GOING TO HAVE TO DO IT AGAIN AND AGAIN. BUT THAT DOESN’T MAKE IT “TOO HARD.” THAT MAKES IT SOMETHING YOU OWE TO YOURSELF TO DO. ESPECIALLY AFTER DIVORCE._ DIVORCE MYTH #4: YOU DON’T DESERVE IT If you’re anything like me, you probably carry this weight that you should be grateful for the things you have. You may have heard it from your family. At church. Or even at work. Those toxic myths sound like: _“You should just be grateful for what you have.” _ _“That’s asking a bit much, isn’t it?” _ _“Why can’t you be happy with what you have?”_ And we have a tendency to believe that, which is the reason we feel bad asking for help. Or asking for more in our lives. This myth is what keeps us from investing in ourselves . Or treating ourselves. Or taking care of ourselves at the expense of our mental health. _THE TRUTH: YOU 100% DESERVE TO ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT. IT IS YOUR RIGHT. AND IT’S YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. _ Messages about your unworthiness came most likely from toxic patriarchal values that were designed to keep divorced women like you feeling ashamed and unworthy. It doesn’t matter if your parents–especially if you can from a big family with limited resources–told you to “just be happy with what you have.” They were wrong. It doesn’t matter if society’s message of “just be grateful” even if you know you aren’t happy and know you deserve more is swirling around in your head. This is *your time* and you deserve to confidently ask for what youwant.
Even if you’re divorced. And especially if you’re feeling guilty after divorce or shameafter divorce.
It is time to ask for what you want. Because that’s what youdeserve.
_Martha Bodyfelt is a divorce recovery coach who helps professional divorced women overcome their divorce loneliness and break free from the patterns keeping them stuck so they can feel fulfilled, have more fun, and live fearlessly. _ _To find out what’s *really* keeping you stuck after divorce, head over to https://marthabodyfelt.com/ to take the 30-second quiz. _ Photo by Brett Jordanon Unsplash
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Separation and divorce are never easy. Emotions, parenting arrangements, division of property and support calculations make couples overwhelmed. Not surprisingly, people often forget to review the old Wills they made when they lived as a couple. As a result, your new loved one may be cut out from your estate, and your ex may receive 7 EASY WAYS TO PRACTICE GRATITUDE AFTER DIVORCE April 8, 2021 By GuestLeave a Comment
You may be feeling frustrated, disappointed, anxious about your future, and are likely grieving the loss of what you hoped to create together. Practicing gratitude may seem like something that’s out of reach right now, and that’s understandable. But gratitude is a wonderful way of grounding yourself and reminding yourself that you’re still here, despite 3 SIGNS OF POOR MENTAL HEALTH AND WHAT YOU CAN DO TO OVERCOME IT February 26, 2021 By Mandy WalkerLeave a Comment
Deciphering the difference between poor mental health and common negative behaviors can be tricky. We all have bad days, which naturally is going to negatively impact how we feel about ourselves and the world around us. That’s simply a part of experiencing life. However, poor mental health is different as it can affect our mind ARE YOU READY TO SHOW YOURSELF LOVE EVEN AFTER DIVORCE? February 17, 2021 By Martha Bodyfelt2 Comments
Congratulations for surviving Valentine’s Day–pretty much the worst day in the world–especially for anybody dealing with divorce. And even if you’re going through divorce or making sense of life after divorce, showing yourself the love you deserve can be incredibly difficult, no matter what time of the year it is. But over my years as 3 WAYS TO BEAT LONELINESS WHEN YOU’RE SCROLLING FACEBOOK January 27, 2021 By Martha BodyfeltLeave a Comment
We’ve all been there. You pour a glass of wine after a long day at work, and all you want to do is some mindless scrolling on Facebook to give yourself a mental break. But the exact opposite happens. The first thing on your newsreel is a picture of flowers that your highschool acquaintance
I CAUGHT MY SPOUSE CHEATING. WHAT SHOULD I DO? November 24, 2020 By GuestLeave a Comment
It’s a tale as old as time: your spouse was in the shower and received some flirty texts from an unknown number. Or worse, you came home to find them in the act. Perhaps this news hit you like a bus, or maybe it’s something you suspected for a long time. Either way, youcaught
OUR FAMILY WIZARD APP REVIEW: CO-PARENTING COMMUNICATIONS November 8, 2020 By Mandy WalkerLeave a Comment
Divorce may be the end of your marriage but it is not the end of your relationship with your kid’s other parent. Far from it. You’ll be connected at least until your child graduates high school, most likely through college and then probably far beyond. That means you’ll have plenty to talk about and co-parentingFAVORITE POSTS
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