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DR. MARTY KLEIN
by Dr. Marty Klein on April 1, 2021 · Sex Addiction, Sexual Intelligence Blog. Sex addiction is a convenient explanation for the destructive behavior of people driven mad by shame and Christian demands for sexual purity. But the problem is shame, not sex. Treating shame, sexual ignorance, and relationship problems can actually curepeople–so
SEXUAL DESIRE: THERAPY’S DIRTY LITTLE SECRET Sexual desire. Therapists don’t understand enough about it. We know a little about what diminishes desire, even less about what enhances it. Oh, we know one thing about how desire works in relationships: for many people, you treat them poorly and they want sex less. ESTROGEN, MENOPAUSE, & BREAST CANCER HRT is the most effective treatment for all menopausal symptoms, including hot flashes, insomnia, difficulty concentrating, and decreased libido. Beyond this, HRT actually helps prevent heart disease, stroke, osteoporosis, and Alzheimer’s—which actually afflict way more women than breast cancer. Women taking HRT live, onaverage, several
CROSS-DRESSING
Dr. Klein: Cross-dressers (men who wear women’s clothes, often for sexual pleasure) are usually heterosexual men who want to have sex with women. Cross-dressing can have several sources, almost always in childhood. Sometimes trauma is involved, sometimes an over-involved mother, sometimes a worshipped sister or other female figure, and ARE YOU SEXUALLY NORMAL In my 20 years as a sex therapist, people continue to ask me one question more than any other. The most common sexual question is "Am I normal?" Americans are concerned -- virtually obsessed -- with the normality of their sexual fantasies, preferences, responses, frequency, secrets, turn-offs, problems, and bodies. The fear of being sexually abnormal interferes with and even prevents YOUR CONDITIONS FOR ENJOYABLE SEX In his classic 1978 book "Male Sexuality" (now available as "The New Male Sexuality"), Dr. Bernie Zilbergeld discussed the concept of conditions for good sex. He said that everyone has conditions, or requirements, for enjoying sex. I believe conditions can be divided into three categories: those about ourselves, about the environment, and about our partner. VIAGRA AND SEXUAL COMMUNICATION It gives a guy the chance to stop sex (i.e., masturbation) right in the middle without having to explain or apologize. And he can experiment all he wants without having to think about frustrating, disappointing, or annoying someone else. If he likes how Viagra enhances masturbation, he can try it with a partner—and again, I’dencourage them
WORKING WITH INFIDELITY ONLINE & OFFLINE Working With Infidelity: Online & Offline Marty Klein, Ph.D February 9, 2020 Santa Clara County Psychological Association SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: A NEW VIEW OF Marty Klein, Ph.D Entrepreneurs’ Organization February 23, 2017 Sexual Intelligence: A New View of Sexual “Function” &Satisfaction
SLEEPY AFTER MASTURBATION Q: Sometimes, after I masturbate, I have a hard time waking up in the morning. It’s no small problem–sometimes I will sleep more than 12 hours, and wake up all groggy. I don’t know if this is natural, or if there is something wrong with me.DR. MARTY KLEIN
by Dr. Marty Klein on April 1, 2021 · Sex Addiction, Sexual Intelligence Blog. Sex addiction is a convenient explanation for the destructive behavior of people driven mad by shame and Christian demands for sexual purity. But the problem is shame, not sex. Treating shame, sexual ignorance, and relationship problems can actually curepeople–so
SEXUAL DESIRE: THERAPY’S DIRTY LITTLE SECRET Sexual desire. Therapists don’t understand enough about it. We know a little about what diminishes desire, even less about what enhances it. Oh, we know one thing about how desire works in relationships: for many people, you treat them poorly and they want sex less. ESTROGEN, MENOPAUSE, & BREAST CANCER HRT is the most effective treatment for all menopausal symptoms, including hot flashes, insomnia, difficulty concentrating, and decreased libido. Beyond this, HRT actually helps prevent heart disease, stroke, osteoporosis, and Alzheimer’s—which actually afflict way more women than breast cancer. Women taking HRT live, onaverage, several
CROSS-DRESSING
Dr. Klein: Cross-dressers (men who wear women’s clothes, often for sexual pleasure) are usually heterosexual men who want to have sex with women. Cross-dressing can have several sources, almost always in childhood. Sometimes trauma is involved, sometimes an over-involved mother, sometimes a worshipped sister or other female figure, and ARE YOU SEXUALLY NORMAL In my 20 years as a sex therapist, people continue to ask me one question more than any other. The most common sexual question is "Am I normal?" Americans are concerned -- virtually obsessed -- with the normality of their sexual fantasies, preferences, responses, frequency, secrets, turn-offs, problems, and bodies. The fear of being sexually abnormal interferes with and even prevents YOUR CONDITIONS FOR ENJOYABLE SEX In his classic 1978 book "Male Sexuality" (now available as "The New Male Sexuality"), Dr. Bernie Zilbergeld discussed the concept of conditions for good sex. He said that everyone has conditions, or requirements, for enjoying sex. I believe conditions can be divided into three categories: those about ourselves, about the environment, and about our partner. VIAGRA AND SEXUAL COMMUNICATION It gives a guy the chance to stop sex (i.e., masturbation) right in the middle without having to explain or apologize. And he can experiment all he wants without having to think about frustrating, disappointing, or annoying someone else. If he likes how Viagra enhances masturbation, he can try it with a partner—and again, I’dencourage them
WORKING WITH INFIDELITY ONLINE & OFFLINE Working With Infidelity: Online & Offline Marty Klein, Ph.D February 9, 2020 Santa Clara County Psychological Association SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: A NEW VIEW OF Marty Klein, Ph.D Entrepreneurs’ Organization February 23, 2017 Sexual Intelligence: A New View of Sexual “Function” &Satisfaction
SLEEPY AFTER MASTURBATION Q: Sometimes, after I masturbate, I have a hard time waking up in the morning. It’s no small problem–sometimes I will sleep more than 12 hours, and wake up all groggy. I don’t know if this is natural, or if there is something wrong with me.6/11/21 AASECT PORN
Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. 6/11/21 aasect porn — Slide Deck. Please enter email address to view slides. WHAT PEOPLE DO IN BED THAT DOESN’T WORK Open the relationship when you have poor communication. An open relationship (different people call it “poly” or “swinging” or “consensual non-monogamy”) involves some sex and a lot of talking—if you do it right. If it doesn’t involve a lot of productive talking, it will involve a lot of pain and arguing. In thatcase, people
SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT FROM SEX AND HOW Sexual function is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Paradoxically, focusing on “function” often undermines sexual satisfaction. Anyone who thinks that orgasm is the best part of sex is missing most of what sex offers. Our desire to be sexually “normal” is precisely what prevents us from becoming our authenticsexual selves.
ARE YOU SEXUALLY NORMAL In my 20 years as a sex therapist, people continue to ask me one question more than any other. The most common sexual question is "Am I normal?" Americans are concerned -- virtually obsessed -- with the normality of their sexual fantasies, preferences, responses, frequency, secrets, turn-offs, problems, and bodies. The fear of being sexually abnormal interferes with and even prevents 14 MILLION AMERICANS IDENTIFY AS LGBT First, the basics: 5.6% of Americans say they identify as LGBT. That includes 3.1% who identify as bisexual, 1.4% who identify as gay, under 1% identifying as lesbian, and under 1% identifying as trans. In a country of 254 million adults, that totals 14 million people—about the same as the population of Illinois. Clearly, that’s a lot of YOUR CONDITIONS FOR ENJOYABLE SEX In his classic 1978 book "Male Sexuality" (now available as "The New Male Sexuality"), Dr. Bernie Zilbergeld discussed the concept of conditions for good sex. He said that everyone has conditions, or requirements, for enjoying sex. I believe conditions can be divided into three categories: those about ourselves, about the environment, and about our partner. WHY THERE’S NO SUCH THING AS SEX ADDICTION—AND WHY IT The young man who killed eight women at three massage parlors near Atlanta last week says he is a sex addict, haunted by his perverse desires and driven to desperation by evangelical Christian beliefs. This is a perfect time to review why the concept of “sex addiction” is so terribly unhelpful—and potentially dangerous forsome people.
NOTES ON EROTIC ROLE-PLAYING Role-playing is a safe arena in which to live other lives–lives that have attractive components, but lie outside a person’s destiny. On the other hand, some people do use role-playing to investigate or rehearse possible new behaviors. Ultimately, erotic role-playing is a way to celebrate two of our most divine gifts: imagination andsexuality.
SEMEN AS LUBRICANT
Q: To perform anal sex on a person, a lubricant is needed. Would semen work? Dr. Klein: Unless a man’s sexual health is perfect, his semen can carry viruses and other things someone might not want in their anus. Assuming the man is healthy, semen is a perfectly good lubricant — but the average man does not ejaculate nearly enough to make analsex comfortable.
MALE VIRGINITY
Q: When do men usually lose their virginity? I am a 27 year-old law student, a virgin with a lot of seriously painful events in my past. I didn’t date much in high school or college. I’ve come close to having sex with a few women, but either I didn’t feel right about it or I was just too anxious to perform.DR. MARTY KLEIN
by Dr. Marty Klein on April 1, 2021 · Sex Addiction, Sexual Intelligence Blog. Sex addiction is a convenient explanation for the destructive behavior of people driven mad by shame and Christian demands for sexual purity. But the problem is shame, not sex. Treating shame, sexual ignorance, and relationship problems can actually curepeople–so
ESTROGEN, MENOPAUSE, & BREAST CANCER HRT is the most effective treatment for all menopausal symptoms, including hot flashes, insomnia, difficulty concentrating, and decreased libido. Beyond this, HRT actually helps prevent heart disease, stroke, osteoporosis, and Alzheimer’s—which actually afflict way more women than breast cancer. Women taking HRT live, onaverage, several
ARE YOU SEXUALLY NORMAL In my 20 years as a sex therapist, people continue to ask me one question more than any other. The most common sexual question is "Am I normal?" Americans are concerned -- virtually obsessed -- with the normality of their sexual fantasies, preferences, responses, frequency, secrets, turn-offs, problems, and bodies. The fear of being sexually abnormal interferes with and even preventsTHE MEANING OF SEX
Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire to simply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning, it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society.CROSS-DRESSING
Dr. Klein: Cross-dressers (men who wear women’s clothes, often for sexual pleasure) are usually heterosexual men who want to have sex with women. Cross-dressing can have several sources, almost always in childhood. Sometimes trauma is involved, sometimes an over-involved mother, sometimes a worshipped sister or other female figure, and SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT FROM SEX AND HOW Sexual function is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Paradoxically, focusing on “function” often undermines sexual satisfaction. Anyone who thinks that orgasm is the best part of sex is missing most of what sex offers. Our desire to be sexually “normal” is precisely what prevents us from becoming our authenticsexual selves.
WORKING WITH INFIDELITY ONLINE & OFFLINE Working With Infidelity: Online & Offline Marty Klein, Ph.D February 9, 2020 Santa Clara County Psychological Association VIAGRA AND SEXUAL COMMUNICATION It gives a guy the chance to stop sex (i.e., masturbation) right in the middle without having to explain or apologize. And he can experiment all he wants without having to think about frustrating, disappointing, or annoying someone else. If he likes how Viagra enhances masturbation, he can try it with a partner—and again, I’dencourage them
SLEEPY AFTER MASTURBATION Q: Sometimes, after I masturbate, I have a hard time waking up in the morning. It’s no small problem–sometimes I will sleep more than 12 hours, and wake up all groggy. I don’t know if this is natural, or if there is something wrong with me. "SEXUAL ADDICTION" IS NOT A USEFUL DIAGNOSIS-AND WHY IT The concept of sexual addiction affects the sexual climate of the society in which we work–negatively. This negativity is reflected in anti-sex education legislation, anti-pornography ordinances, homophobic industry regulations, etc. Sex addicts now have cachet as sex experts. Mass murderer Ted Bundy, widely quoted as an expert onthe effects
DR. MARTY KLEIN
by Dr. Marty Klein on April 1, 2021 · Sex Addiction, Sexual Intelligence Blog. Sex addiction is a convenient explanation for the destructive behavior of people driven mad by shame and Christian demands for sexual purity. But the problem is shame, not sex. Treating shame, sexual ignorance, and relationship problems can actually curepeople–so
ESTROGEN, MENOPAUSE, & BREAST CANCER HRT is the most effective treatment for all menopausal symptoms, including hot flashes, insomnia, difficulty concentrating, and decreased libido. Beyond this, HRT actually helps prevent heart disease, stroke, osteoporosis, and Alzheimer’s—which actually afflict way more women than breast cancer. Women taking HRT live, onaverage, several
ARE YOU SEXUALLY NORMAL In my 20 years as a sex therapist, people continue to ask me one question more than any other. The most common sexual question is "Am I normal?" Americans are concerned -- virtually obsessed -- with the normality of their sexual fantasies, preferences, responses, frequency, secrets, turn-offs, problems, and bodies. The fear of being sexually abnormal interferes with and even preventsTHE MEANING OF SEX
Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire to simply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning, it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society.CROSS-DRESSING
Dr. Klein: Cross-dressers (men who wear women’s clothes, often for sexual pleasure) are usually heterosexual men who want to have sex with women. Cross-dressing can have several sources, almost always in childhood. Sometimes trauma is involved, sometimes an over-involved mother, sometimes a worshipped sister or other female figure, and SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT FROM SEX AND HOW Sexual function is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Paradoxically, focusing on “function” often undermines sexual satisfaction. Anyone who thinks that orgasm is the best part of sex is missing most of what sex offers. Our desire to be sexually “normal” is precisely what prevents us from becoming our authenticsexual selves.
WORKING WITH INFIDELITY ONLINE & OFFLINE Working With Infidelity: Online & Offline Marty Klein, Ph.D February 9, 2020 Santa Clara County Psychological Association VIAGRA AND SEXUAL COMMUNICATION It gives a guy the chance to stop sex (i.e., masturbation) right in the middle without having to explain or apologize. And he can experiment all he wants without having to think about frustrating, disappointing, or annoying someone else. If he likes how Viagra enhances masturbation, he can try it with a partner—and again, I’dencourage them
SLEEPY AFTER MASTURBATION Q: Sometimes, after I masturbate, I have a hard time waking up in the morning. It’s no small problem–sometimes I will sleep more than 12 hours, and wake up all groggy. I don’t know if this is natural, or if there is something wrong with me. "SEXUAL ADDICTION" IS NOT A USEFUL DIAGNOSIS-AND WHY IT The concept of sexual addiction affects the sexual climate of the society in which we work–negatively. This negativity is reflected in anti-sex education legislation, anti-pornography ordinances, homophobic industry regulations, etc. Sex addicts now have cachet as sex experts. Mass murderer Ted Bundy, widely quoted as an expert onthe effects
VIDEOS - DR. MARTY KLEIN Videos. Whether through scandal, public policy issues, surveys, or the latest film, sexuality is almost always in the news. When it is, Dr. Marty Klein is a dependable interview—well-informed, often controversial, always entertaining. And experienced.QUESTIONS & ANSWERS
For answers to almost 600 questions about sex (yours has to be there!), this is the book for you. “Some of the most open, common-sense advice you’re going to find and Klein is funny to boot.” –USA Today. The Body. Clitoral Stimulation.THE MEANING OF SEX
Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire to simply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning, it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society.6/11/21 AASECT PORN
Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. 6/11/21 aasect porn — Slide Deck. Please enter email address to view slides. CENSORSHIP AND THE FEAR OF SEXUALITY Most Americans do not want to discuss sexual issues rationally. Their sexuality poisoned by the culture, they just want their emotional pain taken away. To people afraid of sexuality, censorship looks attractive. It appears to be a solution to the pain. This pain, YOUR CONDITIONS FOR ENJOYABLE SEX In his classic 1978 book "Male Sexuality" (now available as "The New Male Sexuality"), Dr. Bernie Zilbergeld discussed the concept of conditions for good sex. He said that everyone has conditions, or requirements, for enjoying sex. I believe conditions can be divided into three categories: those about ourselves, about the environment, and about our partner. "SEXUAL ADDICTION" IS NOT A USEFUL DIAGNOSIS-AND WHY IT The concept of sexual addiction affects the sexual climate of the society in which we work–negatively. This negativity is reflected in anti-sex education legislation, anti-pornography ordinances, homophobic industry regulations, etc. Sex addicts now have cachet as sex experts. Mass murderer Ted Bundy, widely quoted as an expert onthe effects
WHY IS COMMON SENSE “BLAMING THE VICTIM”? Be smart: * When you park your car, don’t leave valuables on the front seat, and don’t leave your car unlocked. * When you ride thebus or subway, keep
SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: A NEW VIEW OF SEXUAL FUNCTION •How they look, sound, or smell •Preventing unwanted activity •Ignoring (or preventing) pain •Discerning partner’s feelings or judgments •Trying not to climax too quicklyMALE VIRGINITY
Q: When do men usually lose their virginity? I am a 27 year-old law student, a virgin with a lot of seriously painful events in my past. I didn’t date much in high school or college. I’ve come close to having sex with a few women, but either I didn’t feel right about it or I was just too anxious to perform.DR. MARTY KLEIN
by Dr. Marty Klein on April 1, 2021 · Sex Addiction, Sexual Intelligence Blog. Sex addiction is a convenient explanation for the destructive behavior of people driven mad by shame and Christian demands for sexual purity. But the problem is shame, not sex. Treating shame, sexual ignorance, and relationship problems can actually curepeople–so
ESTROGEN, MENOPAUSE, & BREAST CANCER HRT is the most effective treatment for all menopausal symptoms, including hot flashes, insomnia, difficulty concentrating, and decreased libido. Beyond this, HRT actually helps prevent heart disease, stroke, osteoporosis, and Alzheimer’s—which actually afflict way more women than breast cancer. Women taking HRT live, onaverage, several
ARE YOU SEXUALLY NORMAL In my 20 years as a sex therapist, people continue to ask me one question more than any other. The most common sexual question is "Am I normal?" Americans are concerned -- virtually obsessed -- with the normality of their sexual fantasies, preferences, responses, frequency, secrets, turn-offs, problems, and bodies. The fear of being sexually abnormal interferes with and even preventsCROSS-DRESSING
Dr. Klein: Cross-dressers (men who wear women’s clothes, often for sexual pleasure) are usually heterosexual men who want to have sex with women. Cross-dressing can have several sources, almost always in childhood. Sometimes trauma is involved, sometimes an over-involved mother, sometimes a worshipped sister or other female figure, and SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT FROM SEX AND HOW Sexual function is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Paradoxically, focusing on “function” often undermines sexual satisfaction. Anyone who thinks that orgasm is the best part of sex is missing most of what sex offers. Our desire to be sexually “normal” is precisely what prevents us from becoming our authenticsexual selves.
WORKING WITH INFIDELITY ONLINE & OFFLINE Working With Infidelity: Online & Offline Marty Klein, Ph.D February 9, 2020 Santa Clara County Psychological Association VIAGRA AND SEXUAL COMMUNICATION It gives a guy the chance to stop sex (i.e., masturbation) right in the middle without having to explain or apologize. And he can experiment all he wants without having to think about frustrating, disappointing, or annoying someone else. If he likes how Viagra enhances masturbation, he can try it with a partner—and again, I’dencourage them
CENSORSHIP AND THE FEAR OF SEXUALITY Most Americans do not want to discuss sexual issues rationally. Their sexuality poisoned by the culture, they just want their emotional pain taken away. To people afraid of sexuality, censorship looks attractive. It appears to be a solution to the pain. This pain, SLEEPY AFTER MASTURBATION Q: Sometimes, after I masturbate, I have a hard time waking up in the morning. It’s no small problem–sometimes I will sleep more than 12 hours, and wake up all groggy. I don’t know if this is natural, or if there is something wrong with me. "SEXUAL ADDICTION" IS NOT A USEFUL DIAGNOSIS-AND WHY IT The concept of sexual addiction affects the sexual climate of the society in which we work–negatively. This negativity is reflected in anti-sex education legislation, anti-pornography ordinances, homophobic industry regulations, etc. Sex addicts now have cachet as sex experts. Mass murderer Ted Bundy, widely quoted as an expert onthe effects
DR. MARTY KLEIN
by Dr. Marty Klein on April 1, 2021 · Sex Addiction, Sexual Intelligence Blog. Sex addiction is a convenient explanation for the destructive behavior of people driven mad by shame and Christian demands for sexual purity. But the problem is shame, not sex. Treating shame, sexual ignorance, and relationship problems can actually curepeople–so
ESTROGEN, MENOPAUSE, & BREAST CANCER HRT is the most effective treatment for all menopausal symptoms, including hot flashes, insomnia, difficulty concentrating, and decreased libido. Beyond this, HRT actually helps prevent heart disease, stroke, osteoporosis, and Alzheimer’s—which actually afflict way more women than breast cancer. Women taking HRT live, onaverage, several
ARE YOU SEXUALLY NORMAL In my 20 years as a sex therapist, people continue to ask me one question more than any other. The most common sexual question is "Am I normal?" Americans are concerned -- virtually obsessed -- with the normality of their sexual fantasies, preferences, responses, frequency, secrets, turn-offs, problems, and bodies. The fear of being sexually abnormal interferes with and even preventsCROSS-DRESSING
Dr. Klein: Cross-dressers (men who wear women’s clothes, often for sexual pleasure) are usually heterosexual men who want to have sex with women. Cross-dressing can have several sources, almost always in childhood. Sometimes trauma is involved, sometimes an over-involved mother, sometimes a worshipped sister or other female figure, and SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT FROM SEX AND HOW Sexual function is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Paradoxically, focusing on “function” often undermines sexual satisfaction. Anyone who thinks that orgasm is the best part of sex is missing most of what sex offers. Our desire to be sexually “normal” is precisely what prevents us from becoming our authenticsexual selves.
WORKING WITH INFIDELITY ONLINE & OFFLINE Working With Infidelity: Online & Offline Marty Klein, Ph.D February 9, 2020 Santa Clara County Psychological Association VIAGRA AND SEXUAL COMMUNICATION It gives a guy the chance to stop sex (i.e., masturbation) right in the middle without having to explain or apologize. And he can experiment all he wants without having to think about frustrating, disappointing, or annoying someone else. If he likes how Viagra enhances masturbation, he can try it with a partner—and again, I’dencourage them
CENSORSHIP AND THE FEAR OF SEXUALITY Most Americans do not want to discuss sexual issues rationally. Their sexuality poisoned by the culture, they just want their emotional pain taken away. To people afraid of sexuality, censorship looks attractive. It appears to be a solution to the pain. This pain, SLEEPY AFTER MASTURBATION Q: Sometimes, after I masturbate, I have a hard time waking up in the morning. It’s no small problem–sometimes I will sleep more than 12 hours, and wake up all groggy. I don’t know if this is natural, or if there is something wrong with me. "SEXUAL ADDICTION" IS NOT A USEFUL DIAGNOSIS-AND WHY IT The concept of sexual addiction affects the sexual climate of the society in which we work–negatively. This negativity is reflected in anti-sex education legislation, anti-pornography ordinances, homophobic industry regulations, etc. Sex addicts now have cachet as sex experts. Mass murderer Ted Bundy, widely quoted as an expert onthe effects
VIDEOS - DR. MARTY KLEIN Videos. Whether through scandal, public policy issues, surveys, or the latest film, sexuality is almost always in the news. When it is, Dr. Marty Klein is a dependable interview—well-informed, often controversial, always entertaining. And experienced.QUESTIONS & ANSWERS
For answers to almost 600 questions about sex (yours has to be there!), this is the book for you. “Some of the most open, common-sense advice you’re going to find and Klein is funny to boot.” –USA Today. The Body. Clitoral Stimulation. SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT FROM SEX AND HOW Sexual function is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Paradoxically, focusing on “function” often undermines sexual satisfaction. Anyone who thinks that orgasm is the best part of sex is missing most of what sex offers. Our desire to be sexually “normal” is precisely what prevents us from becoming our authenticsexual selves.
THE MEANING OF SEX
Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire to simply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning, it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society. CENSORSHIP AND THE FEAR OF SEXUALITY Most Americans do not want to discuss sexual issues rationally. Their sexuality poisoned by the culture, they just want their emotional pain taken away. To people afraid of sexuality, censorship looks attractive. It appears to be a solution to the pain. This pain, WHAT PEOPLE DO IN BED THAT DOESN’T WORK Open the relationship when you have poor communication. An open relationship (different people call it “poly” or “swinging” or “consensual non-monogamy”) involves some sex and a lot of talking—if you do it right. If it doesn’t involve a lot of productive talking, it will involve a lot of pain and arguing. In thatcase, people
YOUR CONDITIONS FOR ENJOYABLE SEX In his classic 1978 book "Male Sexuality" (now available as "The New Male Sexuality"), Dr. Bernie Zilbergeld discussed the concept of conditions for good sex. He said that everyone has conditions, or requirements, for enjoying sex. I believe conditions can be divided into three categories: those about ourselves, about the environment, and about our partner. WHY IS COMMON SENSE “BLAMING THE VICTIM”? Be smart: * When you park your car, don’t leave valuables on the front seat, and don’t leave your car unlocked. * When you ride thebus or subway, keep
SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: A NEW VIEW OF SEXUAL FUNCTION •How they look, sound, or smell •Preventing unwanted activity •Ignoring (or preventing) pain •Discerning partner’s feelings or judgments •Trying not to climax too quicklyMALE VIRGINITY
Q: When do men usually lose their virginity? I am a 27 year-old law student, a virgin with a lot of seriously painful events in my past. I didn’t date much in high school or college. I’ve come close to having sex with a few women, but either I didn’t feel right about it or I was just too anxious to perform.DR. MARTY KLEIN
by Dr. Marty Klein on April 1, 2021 · Sex Addiction, Sexual Intelligence Blog. Sex addiction is a convenient explanation for the destructive behavior of people driven mad by shame and Christian demands for sexual purity. But the problem is shame, not sex. Treating shame, sexual ignorance, and relationship problems can actually curepeople–so
DR. MARTY KLEIN
Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. Webinars . 5 Products . Books . 5 Products ESTROGEN, MENOPAUSE, & BREAST CANCER HRT is the most effective treatment for all menopausal symptoms, including hot flashes, insomnia, difficulty concentrating, and decreased libido. Beyond this, HRT actually helps prevent heart disease, stroke, osteoporosis, and Alzheimer’s—which actually afflict way more women than breast cancer. Women taking HRT live, onaverage, several
SEX AND THE CORONAVIRUS Of course there’s a risk of catching the virus from an infected person during sex—especially from tongue-kissing. But sex with a person who isn’t infected still carries the same old risks: unintended pregnancy. STIs. A broken heart. No matter how much our lives are being disrupted, the coronavirus has NOT suspended the lawsof the universe.
SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT FROM SEX AND HOW Sexual function is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Paradoxically, focusing on “function” often undermines sexual satisfaction. Anyone who thinks that orgasm is the best part of sex is missing most of what sex offers. Our desire to be sexually “normal” is precisely what prevents us from becoming our authenticsexual selves.
CROSS-DRESSING
Dr. Klein: Cross-dressers (men who wear women’s clothes, often for sexual pleasure) are usually heterosexual men who want to have sex with women. Cross-dressing can have several sources, almost always in childhood. Sometimes trauma is involved, sometimes an over-involved mother, sometimes a worshipped sister or other female figure, andTHE MEANING OF SEX
Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire to simply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning, it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society. VIAGRA AND SEXUAL COMMUNICATION It gives a guy the chance to stop sex (i.e., masturbation) right in the middle without having to explain or apologize. And he can experiment all he wants without having to think about frustrating, disappointing, or annoying someone else. If he likes how Viagra enhances masturbation, he can try it with a partner—and again, I’dencourage them
WHY IS COMMON SENSE “BLAMING THE VICTIM”? Be smart: * When you park your car, don’t leave valuables on the front seat, and don’t leave your car unlocked. * When you ride thebus or subway, keep
DOES EJACULATION WEAKEN A MAN'S HEALTH? Dr. Klein: Ejaculation does not weaken a man’s health. It is a normal physical process, one of the ways the body reduces the buildup of tension during sexual arousal. Man are often tired after ejaculation because they have just exerted a lot of physical and/oremotional energy.
DR. MARTY KLEIN
by Dr. Marty Klein on April 1, 2021 · Sex Addiction, Sexual Intelligence Blog. Sex addiction is a convenient explanation for the destructive behavior of people driven mad by shame and Christian demands for sexual purity. But the problem is shame, not sex. Treating shame, sexual ignorance, and relationship problems can actually curepeople–so
DR. MARTY KLEIN
Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. Webinars . 5 Products . Books . 5 Products ESTROGEN, MENOPAUSE, & BREAST CANCER HRT is the most effective treatment for all menopausal symptoms, including hot flashes, insomnia, difficulty concentrating, and decreased libido. Beyond this, HRT actually helps prevent heart disease, stroke, osteoporosis, and Alzheimer’s—which actually afflict way more women than breast cancer. Women taking HRT live, onaverage, several
SEX AND THE CORONAVIRUS Of course there’s a risk of catching the virus from an infected person during sex—especially from tongue-kissing. But sex with a person who isn’t infected still carries the same old risks: unintended pregnancy. STIs. A broken heart. No matter how much our lives are being disrupted, the coronavirus has NOT suspended the lawsof the universe.
SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT FROM SEX AND HOW Sexual function is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Paradoxically, focusing on “function” often undermines sexual satisfaction. Anyone who thinks that orgasm is the best part of sex is missing most of what sex offers. Our desire to be sexually “normal” is precisely what prevents us from becoming our authenticsexual selves.
CROSS-DRESSING
Dr. Klein: Cross-dressers (men who wear women’s clothes, often for sexual pleasure) are usually heterosexual men who want to have sex with women. Cross-dressing can have several sources, almost always in childhood. Sometimes trauma is involved, sometimes an over-involved mother, sometimes a worshipped sister or other female figure, andTHE MEANING OF SEX
Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire to simply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning, it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society. VIAGRA AND SEXUAL COMMUNICATION It gives a guy the chance to stop sex (i.e., masturbation) right in the middle without having to explain or apologize. And he can experiment all he wants without having to think about frustrating, disappointing, or annoying someone else. If he likes how Viagra enhances masturbation, he can try it with a partner—and again, I’dencourage them
WHY IS COMMON SENSE “BLAMING THE VICTIM”? Be smart: * When you park your car, don’t leave valuables on the front seat, and don’t leave your car unlocked. * When you ride thebus or subway, keep
DOES EJACULATION WEAKEN A MAN'S HEALTH? Dr. Klein: Ejaculation does not weaken a man’s health. It is a normal physical process, one of the ways the body reduces the buildup of tension during sexual arousal. Man are often tired after ejaculation because they have just exerted a lot of physical and/oremotional energy.
VIDEOS - DR. MARTY KLEIN Videos. Whether through scandal, public policy issues, surveys, or the latest film, sexuality is almost always in the news. When it is, Dr. Marty Klein is a dependable interview—well-informed, often controversial, always entertaining. And experienced.DR. MARTY KLEIN
Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. Webinars . 5 Products . Books . 5 Products SEX AND THE CORONAVIRUS Of course there’s a risk of catching the virus from an infected person during sex—especially from tongue-kissing. But sex with a person who isn’t infected still carries the same old risks: unintended pregnancy. STIs. A broken heart. No matter how much our lives are being disrupted, the coronavirus has NOT suspended the lawsof the universe.
QUESTIONS & ANSWERS
People have been asking me questions about sex for over 30 years. Here are some recent ones, with my answers. In addition to providing accurate information, I want to help you think about sexuality in a new way—a way that emphasizes what you want and how you feel, rather than what you’re supposed to do and how a “real man,” “real woman,” or “great lover” behaves.THE MEANING OF SEX
Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire to simply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning, it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society.DESIRE FOR WHAT?
Desire also raises the question of the quality of the sex that people think is available. Although Lenny Bruce famously said that most men are so generically horny that they’ll “have sex with mud if necessary,” most men and women want more than that from sex. Even if someone doesn’t crave emotional connection as part of sex, mostpeople
ARE YOU SEXUALLY NORMAL In my 20 years as a sex therapist, people continue to ask me one question more than any other. The most common sexual question is "Am I normal?" Americans are concerned -- virtually obsessed -- with the normality of their sexual fantasies, preferences, responses, frequency, secrets, turn-offs, problems, and bodies. The fear of being sexually abnormal interferes with and even prevents FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS When you finish watching a webinar, complete and submit the following form: 1. Sex, Love, and Intimacy. 2. Working with Couples. 3. Intakes & First Sessions. You’ll receive your certificate (s) within 30 days. Note there is no extra charge for CE certificates. CAMFT: INTAKES SLIDE DECK Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. CAMFT: Intakes Slide Deck. Please enter email address to view slides. SLEEPY AFTER MASTURBATION Q: Sometimes, after I masturbate, I have a hard time waking up in the morning. It’s no small problem–sometimes I will sleep more than 12 hours, and wake up all groggy. I don’t know if this is natural, or if there is something wrong with me.DR. MARTY KLEIN
by Dr. Marty Klein on April 1, 2021 · Sex Addiction, Sexual Intelligence Blog. Sex addiction is a convenient explanation for the destructive behavior of people driven mad by shame and Christian demands for sexual purity. But the problem is shame, not sex. Treating shame, sexual ignorance, and relationship problems can actually curepeople–so
DR. MARTY KLEIN
Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. Webinars . 5 Products . Books . 5 Products ESTROGEN, MENOPAUSE, & BREAST CANCER HRT is the most effective treatment for all menopausal symptoms, including hot flashes, insomnia, difficulty concentrating, and decreased libido. Beyond this, HRT actually helps prevent heart disease, stroke, osteoporosis, and Alzheimer’s—which actually afflict way more women than breast cancer. Women taking HRT live, onaverage, several
SEX AND THE CORONAVIRUS Of course there’s a risk of catching the virus from an infected person during sex—especially from tongue-kissing. But sex with a person who isn’t infected still carries the same old risks: unintended pregnancy. STIs. A broken heart. No matter how much our lives are being disrupted, the coronavirus has NOT suspended the lawsof the universe.
SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT FROM SEX AND HOW Sexual function is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Paradoxically, focusing on “function” often undermines sexual satisfaction. Anyone who thinks that orgasm is the best part of sex is missing most of what sex offers. Our desire to be sexually “normal” is precisely what prevents us from becoming our authenticsexual selves.
CROSS-DRESSING
Dr. Klein: Cross-dressers (men who wear women’s clothes, often for sexual pleasure) are usually heterosexual men who want to have sex with women. Cross-dressing can have several sources, almost always in childhood. Sometimes trauma is involved, sometimes an over-involved mother, sometimes a worshipped sister or other female figure, andTHE MEANING OF SEX
Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire to simply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning, it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society. VIAGRA AND SEXUAL COMMUNICATION It gives a guy the chance to stop sex (i.e., masturbation) right in the middle without having to explain or apologize. And he can experiment all he wants without having to think about frustrating, disappointing, or annoying someone else. If he likes how Viagra enhances masturbation, he can try it with a partner—and again, I’dencourage them
WHY IS COMMON SENSE “BLAMING THE VICTIM”? Be smart: * When you park your car, don’t leave valuables on the front seat, and don’t leave your car unlocked. * When you ride thebus or subway, keep
DOES EJACULATION WEAKEN A MAN'S HEALTH? Dr. Klein: Ejaculation does not weaken a man’s health. It is a normal physical process, one of the ways the body reduces the buildup of tension during sexual arousal. Man are often tired after ejaculation because they have just exerted a lot of physical and/oremotional energy.
DR. MARTY KLEIN
by Dr. Marty Klein on April 1, 2021 · Sex Addiction, Sexual Intelligence Blog. Sex addiction is a convenient explanation for the destructive behavior of people driven mad by shame and Christian demands for sexual purity. But the problem is shame, not sex. Treating shame, sexual ignorance, and relationship problems can actually curepeople–so
DR. MARTY KLEIN
Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. Webinars . 5 Products . Books . 5 Products ESTROGEN, MENOPAUSE, & BREAST CANCER HRT is the most effective treatment for all menopausal symptoms, including hot flashes, insomnia, difficulty concentrating, and decreased libido. Beyond this, HRT actually helps prevent heart disease, stroke, osteoporosis, and Alzheimer’s—which actually afflict way more women than breast cancer. Women taking HRT live, onaverage, several
SEX AND THE CORONAVIRUS Of course there’s a risk of catching the virus from an infected person during sex—especially from tongue-kissing. But sex with a person who isn’t infected still carries the same old risks: unintended pregnancy. STIs. A broken heart. No matter how much our lives are being disrupted, the coronavirus has NOT suspended the lawsof the universe.
SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT FROM SEX AND HOW Sexual function is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Paradoxically, focusing on “function” often undermines sexual satisfaction. Anyone who thinks that orgasm is the best part of sex is missing most of what sex offers. Our desire to be sexually “normal” is precisely what prevents us from becoming our authenticsexual selves.
CROSS-DRESSING
Dr. Klein: Cross-dressers (men who wear women’s clothes, often for sexual pleasure) are usually heterosexual men who want to have sex with women. Cross-dressing can have several sources, almost always in childhood. Sometimes trauma is involved, sometimes an over-involved mother, sometimes a worshipped sister or other female figure, andTHE MEANING OF SEX
Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire to simply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning, it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society. VIAGRA AND SEXUAL COMMUNICATION It gives a guy the chance to stop sex (i.e., masturbation) right in the middle without having to explain or apologize. And he can experiment all he wants without having to think about frustrating, disappointing, or annoying someone else. If he likes how Viagra enhances masturbation, he can try it with a partner—and again, I’dencourage them
WHY IS COMMON SENSE “BLAMING THE VICTIM”? Be smart: * When you park your car, don’t leave valuables on the front seat, and don’t leave your car unlocked. * When you ride thebus or subway, keep
DOES EJACULATION WEAKEN A MAN'S HEALTH? Dr. Klein: Ejaculation does not weaken a man’s health. It is a normal physical process, one of the ways the body reduces the buildup of tension during sexual arousal. Man are often tired after ejaculation because they have just exerted a lot of physical and/oremotional energy.
VIDEOS - DR. MARTY KLEIN Videos. Whether through scandal, public policy issues, surveys, or the latest film, sexuality is almost always in the news. When it is, Dr. Marty Klein is a dependable interview—well-informed, often controversial, always entertaining. And experienced.DR. MARTY KLEIN
Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. Webinars . 5 Products . Books . 5 Products SEX AND THE CORONAVIRUS Of course there’s a risk of catching the virus from an infected person during sex—especially from tongue-kissing. But sex with a person who isn’t infected still carries the same old risks: unintended pregnancy. STIs. A broken heart. No matter how much our lives are being disrupted, the coronavirus has NOT suspended the lawsof the universe.
QUESTIONS & ANSWERS
People have been asking me questions about sex for over 30 years. Here are some recent ones, with my answers. In addition to providing accurate information, I want to help you think about sexuality in a new way—a way that emphasizes what you want and how you feel, rather than what you’re supposed to do and how a “real man,” “real woman,” or “great lover” behaves.THE MEANING OF SEX
Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire to simply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning, it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society.DESIRE FOR WHAT?
Desire also raises the question of the quality of the sex that people think is available. Although Lenny Bruce famously said that most men are so generically horny that they’ll “have sex with mud if necessary,” most men and women want more than that from sex. Even if someone doesn’t crave emotional connection as part of sex, mostpeople
ARE YOU SEXUALLY NORMAL In my 20 years as a sex therapist, people continue to ask me one question more than any other. The most common sexual question is "Am I normal?" Americans are concerned -- virtually obsessed -- with the normality of their sexual fantasies, preferences, responses, frequency, secrets, turn-offs, problems, and bodies. The fear of being sexually abnormal interferes with and even prevents FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS When you finish watching a webinar, complete and submit the following form: 1. Sex, Love, and Intimacy. 2. Working with Couples. 3. Intakes & First Sessions. You’ll receive your certificate (s) within 30 days. Note there is no extra charge for CE certificates. CAMFT: INTAKES SLIDE DECK Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. CAMFT: Intakes Slide Deck. Please enter email address to view slides. SLEEPY AFTER MASTURBATION Q: Sometimes, after I masturbate, I have a hard time waking up in the morning. It’s no small problem–sometimes I will sleep more than 12 hours, and wake up all groggy. I don’t know if this is natural, or if there is something wrong with me.DR. MARTY KLEIN
by Dr. Marty Klein on April 1, 2021 · Sex Addiction, Sexual Intelligence Blog. Sex addiction is a convenient explanation for the destructive behavior of people driven mad by shame and Christian demands for sexual purity. But the problem is shame, not sex. Treating shame, sexual ignorance, and relationship problems can actually curepeople–so
DR. MARTY KLEIN
Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. Webinars . 5 Products . Books . 5 Products ESTROGEN, MENOPAUSE, & BREAST CANCER HRT is the most effective treatment for all menopausal symptoms, including hot flashes, insomnia, difficulty concentrating, and decreased libido. Beyond this, HRT actually helps prevent heart disease, stroke, osteoporosis, and Alzheimer’s—which actually afflict way more women than breast cancer. Women taking HRT live, onaverage, several
SEX AND THE CORONAVIRUS Of course there’s a risk of catching the virus from an infected person during sex—especially from tongue-kissing. But sex with a person who isn’t infected still carries the same old risks: unintended pregnancy. STIs. A broken heart. No matter how much our lives are being disrupted, the coronavirus has NOT suspended the lawsof the universe.
SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT FROM SEX AND HOW Sexual function is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Paradoxically, focusing on “function” often undermines sexual satisfaction. Anyone who thinks that orgasm is the best part of sex is missing most of what sex offers. Our desire to be sexually “normal” is precisely what prevents us from becoming our authenticsexual selves.
CROSS-DRESSING
Dr. Klein: Cross-dressers (men who wear women’s clothes, often for sexual pleasure) are usually heterosexual men who want to have sex with women. Cross-dressing can have several sources, almost always in childhood. Sometimes trauma is involved, sometimes an over-involved mother, sometimes a worshipped sister or other female figure, andTHE MEANING OF SEX
Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire to simply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning, it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society. VIAGRA AND SEXUAL COMMUNICATION It gives a guy the chance to stop sex (i.e., masturbation) right in the middle without having to explain or apologize. And he can experiment all he wants without having to think about frustrating, disappointing, or annoying someone else. If he likes how Viagra enhances masturbation, he can try it with a partner—and again, I’dencourage them
WHY IS COMMON SENSE “BLAMING THE VICTIM”? Be smart: * When you park your car, don’t leave valuables on the front seat, and don’t leave your car unlocked. * When you ride thebus or subway, keep
DOES EJACULATION WEAKEN A MAN'S HEALTH? Dr. Klein: Ejaculation does not weaken a man’s health. It is a normal physical process, one of the ways the body reduces the buildup of tension during sexual arousal. Man are often tired after ejaculation because they have just exerted a lot of physical and/oremotional energy.
DR. MARTY KLEIN
by Dr. Marty Klein on April 1, 2021 · Sex Addiction, Sexual Intelligence Blog. Sex addiction is a convenient explanation for the destructive behavior of people driven mad by shame and Christian demands for sexual purity. But the problem is shame, not sex. Treating shame, sexual ignorance, and relationship problems can actually curepeople–so
DR. MARTY KLEIN
Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. Webinars . 5 Products . Books . 5 Products ESTROGEN, MENOPAUSE, & BREAST CANCER HRT is the most effective treatment for all menopausal symptoms, including hot flashes, insomnia, difficulty concentrating, and decreased libido. Beyond this, HRT actually helps prevent heart disease, stroke, osteoporosis, and Alzheimer’s—which actually afflict way more women than breast cancer. Women taking HRT live, onaverage, several
SEX AND THE CORONAVIRUS Of course there’s a risk of catching the virus from an infected person during sex—especially from tongue-kissing. But sex with a person who isn’t infected still carries the same old risks: unintended pregnancy. STIs. A broken heart. No matter how much our lives are being disrupted, the coronavirus has NOT suspended the lawsof the universe.
SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: WHAT WE REALLY WANT FROM SEX AND HOW Sexual function is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Paradoxically, focusing on “function” often undermines sexual satisfaction. Anyone who thinks that orgasm is the best part of sex is missing most of what sex offers. Our desire to be sexually “normal” is precisely what prevents us from becoming our authenticsexual selves.
CROSS-DRESSING
Dr. Klein: Cross-dressers (men who wear women’s clothes, often for sexual pleasure) are usually heterosexual men who want to have sex with women. Cross-dressing can have several sources, almost always in childhood. Sometimes trauma is involved, sometimes an over-involved mother, sometimes a worshipped sister or other female figure, andTHE MEANING OF SEX
Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire to simply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning, it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society. VIAGRA AND SEXUAL COMMUNICATION It gives a guy the chance to stop sex (i.e., masturbation) right in the middle without having to explain or apologize. And he can experiment all he wants without having to think about frustrating, disappointing, or annoying someone else. If he likes how Viagra enhances masturbation, he can try it with a partner—and again, I’dencourage them
WHY IS COMMON SENSE “BLAMING THE VICTIM”? Be smart: * When you park your car, don’t leave valuables on the front seat, and don’t leave your car unlocked. * When you ride thebus or subway, keep
DOES EJACULATION WEAKEN A MAN'S HEALTH? Dr. Klein: Ejaculation does not weaken a man’s health. It is a normal physical process, one of the ways the body reduces the buildup of tension during sexual arousal. Man are often tired after ejaculation because they have just exerted a lot of physical and/oremotional energy.
VIDEOS - DR. MARTY KLEIN Videos. Whether through scandal, public policy issues, surveys, or the latest film, sexuality is almost always in the news. When it is, Dr. Marty Klein is a dependable interview—well-informed, often controversial, always entertaining. And experienced.DR. MARTY KLEIN
Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. Webinars . 5 Products . Books . 5 Products SEX AND THE CORONAVIRUS Of course there’s a risk of catching the virus from an infected person during sex—especially from tongue-kissing. But sex with a person who isn’t infected still carries the same old risks: unintended pregnancy. STIs. A broken heart. No matter how much our lives are being disrupted, the coronavirus has NOT suspended the lawsof the universe.
QUESTIONS & ANSWERS
People have been asking me questions about sex for over 30 years. Here are some recent ones, with my answers. In addition to providing accurate information, I want to help you think about sexuality in a new way—a way that emphasizes what you want and how you feel, rather than what you’re supposed to do and how a “real man,” “real woman,” or “great lover” behaves.THE MEANING OF SEX
Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire to simply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning, it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society.DESIRE FOR WHAT?
Desire also raises the question of the quality of the sex that people think is available. Although Lenny Bruce famously said that most men are so generically horny that they’ll “have sex with mud if necessary,” most men and women want more than that from sex. Even if someone doesn’t crave emotional connection as part of sex, mostpeople
ARE YOU SEXUALLY NORMAL In my 20 years as a sex therapist, people continue to ask me one question more than any other. The most common sexual question is "Am I normal?" Americans are concerned -- virtually obsessed -- with the normality of their sexual fantasies, preferences, responses, frequency, secrets, turn-offs, problems, and bodies. The fear of being sexually abnormal interferes with and even prevents FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS When you finish watching a webinar, complete and submit the following form: 1. Sex, Love, and Intimacy. 2. Working with Couples. 3. Intakes & First Sessions. You’ll receive your certificate (s) within 30 days. Note there is no extra charge for CE certificates. CAMFT: INTAKES SLIDE DECK Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex. CAMFT: Intakes Slide Deck. Please enter email address to view slides. SLEEPY AFTER MASTURBATION Q: Sometimes, after I masturbate, I have a hard time waking up in the morning. It’s no small problem–sometimes I will sleep more than 12 hours, and wake up all groggy. I don’t know if this is natural, or if there is something wrong with me.* Home
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